Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Patton Oswalt

watching dollhouse again
Patton Oswalt plays a man, who just when he made it rich, his young wife dies.
touching and quite sad

until you remember, that his wife in real life died 7 years later ..

what will it take this time?

infinite
no wait
the '68 riots proved that there IS a limit.
It took the death of King to push everything over the edge.

Obama? If Obama is assassinated, would that have the same effect?
Beause if that doesn't cause 100 riots, nothing ever will.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/King_assassination_riots

changes in books

Have you reread a book, that you LOVED 30 years ago, but havent read since?? Don't. They rarely hold up.
Not like "that" book that you reread every year or so.

I am rereading "the martian chronicles" as an example.
I havent read it in over 25 years?!
Many things are different, my old eyes see the world differently, and that can be a good thing. But I would argue that this is the exception, not the norm.

It would be interesting to revisit this deeper.
list of "books that are now crap 30 years later"
list of "book that you didnt get 30 years ago and are amazing NOW"

I need to pretend to be working.

this is a memory refresh thing I bet books that we reread more often, for complex and deep memories combining are first reactions with all the rest ...

books that we only read once, will have faded somewhat, etc


So the martian chronicles, written by the much beloved ray bradbury. were written from '47 and published collected in '50.

Reading it today ... the gender role models alone, the being mad at the wife for worrying her head over silly things ... shudder.

I have a terrifying counter question:
We talk about changing "their minds". How to change the mind of trump voter.
But, we don't ask ourselves the same question:
Take your biggest, most import ideal; and honesty work to change your own mind.

What "ideals" have we so completely accepted, that they have become sacred cows, only to be later judged?

Monday, January 29, 2018

40k years ago

it did sort of .... (and it was BRIEF ... only 440 years or so? lol)
(FYI - you have DOVE into one of my favorite places ... connections!!!)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_human_prehistory#Upper_Paleolithic

a quick summary of what happened ~40k
40,000 years ago: extinction of Homo neanderthalensis.[10]
all the megafauna went extinct (clearly multiple causes)

great leap forward happened around this date
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_human_evolution#Homo
pretty much ALL of modern human happened

along with killing, mutations would happen, and rapid punctuated evolution

the last BIG ice age started around 30k ....

and ... homo sapiens will NOT go extinct from a reversal ...
but most of civilization will collapse, killing billions, which people would incorrect call "extinction" .. heh

Sunday, January 28, 2018

story idea

US in 10 years
98% live in prisons ... major city centers are surrounded by massive prisons.
2% live in their safe enclaves

wait, isnt this snowcrash and diamond age
:D

WINDOWS TOOLS

WHO CRASHED
http://www.resplendence.com/bin/rspupdate.dll/checkforupdate?product=WhoCrashed&ver=55430509&os=ntoskrnl.exe&osver=5a49bb2b822000&pdbname=ntkrnlmp.pdb&pdb7=7AB68ADCAD1B42EB801E2FA7978863931&halpdbname=hal.pdb&halpdb7=053EE3C5B579434E8444D96EBC7C39641&edition=home



You're Lucky

You're Lucky

You're Lucky that one sperm out of 500 billion fertilized that egg.
You're Lucky that out of a million eggs that your mom was born with, and the 400 she ovulated, your egg was fertilized.
You're Lucky that your werent among them 25-50% of pregnancies that miscarry.  
You're Lucky that you didnt die from a childhood disease.
You're Lucky that 
You're Lucky that 
You're Lucky that 
You're Lucky that 
You're Lucky that 
You're Lucky that 


Wednesday, January 24, 2018

RIP Ursula

RIP Ursula le Guin - pick up one of her books.
ANY and ALL of her major works will entrance you.

Things that my parents did to my brain when I was young.
We read what our parents read. And my parents had a MOUNTAIN of SF & F laying about the house.

Is it any surprise that they are my favorites??

My earliest memories are trying to read their copy of the Hobbit. Was drawn in by the amazing cover. Couldn't get past the intro, but kept trying.
(Oh, look, one of my favorite gifts from them, was my own boxed set <3) 

I NEVER got into LeGuin's last works. 
Always coming home. But that was a long time ago.
Going to try again as an adult.

DUH - earthsea - read it now, if you never have. 
I need to send some copies to some friends with kids. 

Left hand and Dispossessed
I read them as a kid. (My parents were major SF nerds, going to conventions, hell, my mom won costume awards in her later years??? LOLWUT??)

I have no memories of not reading things like le Guin. 
And heinlein. 
How much of my "acceptance" of others was driven by the normalization in these stories?

The Forever War (haldeman  sp?) is one of my all time favorite stories.  The story is all about acceptance and different and the wars that happen with miscommunication. 

Tuesday, January 23, 2018

Monday, January 22, 2018

Jesus Water and Jesus Air

Tis the best way to make money, selling crap to fools.
I keep thinking about two perfect products:
Jesus Water - Guaranteed to contain at least one water molecule that Jesus drank!!!
Jesus Air - Guaranteed to contain at least one molecule that was in Jesus' lungs!!!!

Hell, you could use the same plastic bottle for both products.
Tap water in one, nothing but air in the other.

BUY NOW and SAVE!! GET TWO for the price of ONE !!!!

powerfully complex stories

it is a "theme" from two different, and insanely well written TV SHOWS ....
the first was Californication ....
Where she presented herself as an adult, fan of his book.
Given the current environment, when go both parties need to start doing background checks???

the second was Shameless
where he knew her age, but she ambushed him while he was on pain meds for a nail gun accident.
Can you be legally responsible when you can not consent?
this wasnt drunnk driving ... this wasnt getting smashed and doing stupid things .... he went home, took his meds, all proper (ish), and then she ambushed him. took video. to get him in trouble. (hell, I think they even have him saying stop and no)
Keep in mind, that I am not excusing, but ....

the show unpacks about 20 major themes in 40 minutes ...

one of the many themes, is the drunk dad ...
They are unapologetic about it. we are all aware that the whole "jsut quit" is never that easy for addicts.

FYI ... before there can be any "question here" ... in the show, she rapes him. Period. Any rational jury, seeing what we saw, would agree. She then posted the video, edited, jsut to get him in trouble. ....

her storyline is amazing ... that she was driven to this by her real dad .... judging .... powerful stories ...

Predator and Prey

there is a confluence here

How many times have we all heard: "ALL MEN ARE ASSHOLES!" or "Where are the good/nice men?"

We all agree that we need to do better. To train men differently and better. That women need to be empowered and use that power (no, walk away, call police, etc)
Most of this could be boiled down to "use your words" and "dont have drunk sex the first time".

Thought experiment one: We train men and women to use their words.
Him: "will we have sex tonight"
Her: "no" "yes" "maybe"
If he is looking for sex tonight, he would walk away from no and maybe.
(yes, all same people agree, that she can revoke the "yes")

So now, all the trained men, act appropriately. TADA
Alas
The predators.
Those men did not magically go away.
They hear "no" as a challenge to change her mind. "Maybe" as "I can win this." And "yes" as full speed ahead.  Training did not magically change society and genetics and history. (nature AND nurture)

But we all know from experience (whoops, what about people with no experience?) that when everyone that we date is "crazy" the common thread is ME. For a long time, I date the same time of women. I wanted to save them. To fix them. Yes, they were crazy, but so was I.
(replace crazy with any adjective, including, but no limited to: crazy, pushy, rapey, predator, etc)

Part of what is missing from the training and changing society, is what does Grace do?
What do all the people like Grace do? (pretty much everyone, except the predators)
Loveline nailed this decades ago. Stop dating. Get therapy.

Without doing this, Grace will have a long line of similar dates; just like she has a past of similar dates.  This is NOT judging her. But asking, if all your dates are the same, what is common? You.

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

India vs China

Was thinking about you the other day.
Time to plan another London trip!!

I was thinking about China ... how China has gone from SHITHOLE country, to the largest middle class on the planet. Economic juggernaut. 

And all the time .... *Crickets* ... no one is talking about India. Which some day. Some day much sooner than anyone would guess. India is going to explode on the scene, eclipsing or at least equaling china.

My guess? Totally eclipse china. robust democracy beats China's kleptocracy everyday.

My guess? MUCH sooner than any one expects. 
When is india planning a moonbase? And how fucking COOL would that be>???

BEST.T answer yet. To Aziz story

...
1) you have earned 3 beers of your choice
2) seriously FANTASTIC read
3) I have been that guy (FFS, never quite as insanely oblivious). But young, naive, uneducated (THANKS PARENTS!!! TALK TO YOUR CHILDREN!! TODAY!!!!!) FFS I was 15 and there was no internet yet ... hahaha
4) but I was lucky to date a couple educated women early on. Who used their words.  IF I was THAT guy with them, they never said. ... (not sure that I would WANT to know right now ... hahahaha)(that laughing but not with my eyes)
5) I LOVE HER THESIS !!!
IN ORDER TO FIX THIS, WE MUST FIX SOCIETY
Not just "teach boys to not creep".

NOT to put you ON THE SPOT.
BUT ... you have daughters. You can fix this for them. TODAY.  With long, constant, awkward, embarrassing, sad, fucked up, conversations. These articles are a GREAT place to start.

HOW ELSE can we change this?
Society starts at home.
GL

obama lies with statistics - deportations

https://www.dhs.gov/immigration-statistics/yearbook/2016/table39

https://www.snopes.com/obama-deported-more-people/

nutriton sugar

http://nutritiondata.self.com/facts/fruits-and-fruit-juices/1846/2 - bananas

http://nutritiondata.self.com/facts/fruits-and-fruit-juices/1968/2 - oranges

http://nutritiondata.self.com/facts/sweets/5592/2 - cane sugar







day one of civil war 2.0

Civil War 2.0 has begun.
This is phase 1.
The peaceful process didnt work.
The democrats under Obama created Obamacare.
And gave the red states an option.
Expand or dont.
The red states fired the first shots.
They refused to expand, instead, firing shots at themselves.
Yes, I know, people who voted blue are being hurt.
They are the first casualties of the war.
But nothing else has ever worked with these states.
Which side are you on?
The Union North, or the Traitors?

Monday, January 15, 2018

HOW BAD CAN IT GET

OMFG ... we KNOW exactly how bad it can get ....

gulags
forced relocation
death camps
all things that have happened in the US previously
(HINT: if you question the truth of this statement - go spend some time reading US history books ... not the crap that they taught us in school)

FUCK WHERE DO WE STAR???

I have been fighting with part of my family and some of my friends.

AM I part of the problem, if accept, tolerate, associate with friends or family who are full blown nazis?
YES I AM

What if they are just regular racists?
YES I AM

What if they are vocally trump supporters?
YES I AM

What if they are quiet trump supporters?
Meh, I cant read minds!!

I have endured - "dont hate them. Hate doesnt solve anything"
I have heard - "but they are my mother, brother, FAMILY!" And they make excuses for tolerated the hatred.

I dont have THE answer.
But ... I think PART of the answer is holding family and friends to higher standards. (Not perfection ... there is no perfection)

But if you have spent the last 8 years, defending obama, while they viciously attacked him and our values.

IF you spent the 8 years before that, listening to them expound on how FUCKING AWESOME W WAS!!!! And How Obama caused the depression.

IF in those 16 years, they got worse, refusing to debate, refusing to admit facts, refusing to even civilly disagree?
WHY THE FUCK are you still talking to these people?
"Family" mhmmm

"Family" is WHY racism is still so ingrained.
"But I am christian".  ... why do they deserve your compassion, while they actively kill my friends and others?

FUCK
(I am reminded of Jon Stewart's segment on "IF you are tired of HEARING ABOUT IT, imagine having to live it."

WHAT kind of example are you setting for your children????
"Meh, you can fight with them at the table. But they are family. So it is ok if they are Nazis."

Yup ... this problem will last forever.

(*rant off*)
(God I need another 12 beers)

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Sanctuary

A long, complex discussion about date rate, drunk sex, one night stands, perfection.
Led to a question: How do we improve this?

Which led me down the path ... what have I done?

Long talks with parent friends.

Which led to, WHAT have I done in my life??

My niece called, KNOWING that I would provide sanctuary, not judgement.
I was the first person that she called after having sex for the first time.
Unprotected sex.
Me? Plan B - NOW
(There was my first reaction, which I apologized before having it. Made it short. Moved on and never revisited it.)

A friend was suicidal.
I spent HOURS on the phone.
When all else failed, I gave them two options:
I will come visit and be with them.
Come to chicago and escape.
NO ONE should die alone. Period.
(They lived with me for a time. They made it.)

Saturday, January 13, 2018

virus scanning steps

Just a note to Farkers...this is only a variant of a scam that's been around for ages, we call it "scareware" or "ransomware".

This is how you remove them:

Get a flash drive and a non-infected computer.

Download RKill.

Download TDSSKiller.

Download ComboFix.

Download Malwarebytes

Put them all on the flash drive.

Start the infected computer in Safe Mode (press F8 as the computer is starting up), use the arrow keys on the keyboard to select Safe Mode With Networking

Plug in the flash drive, go to it and transfer the tools to the desktop.

Run them in order (all in Safe Mode):

RKill

TDSSKiller

ComboFix

MalwareBytes

RKill will kill any malicious processes running, to allow the other tools to do their job.

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

asus motherobard review

https://overclock3d.net/reviews/cpu_mainboard/asus_rog_rampage_vi_extreme_review/17

desktop cases

https://www.overclockers.co.uk/cases-and-modding/pc-cases/aluminium

delidded CPU .... woot

https://siliconlottery.com/collections/all/products/7900x46g

fan speeds 200mm

https://pcgamingbuilds.com/best-200mm-case-fan

https://www.thetechlounge.com/best-case-fans/












desktop cooling

high rating
http://www.tomshardware.com/reviews/fractal-design-celsius-s24-cooler,5058-2.html

http://www.tomshardware.com/answers/id-2921926/overkill-2000-dollar-custom-water-cooled-loop-parts-description-post-pictures-ofendproduct.html#r17240735


https://www.amazon.com/PRISMACOLOR-DESIGN-Eraser-Kneaded-Rubber/dp/B01FUUY4A6/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1515635581&sr=8-1&keywords=kneed+eraser

https://www.msi.com/blog/Understanding-X299-and-unlocking-its-full-potential

https://overclock3d.net/reviews/cases_cooling/cooler_master_nepton_280l_review/4



desktop motherboards etc

http://edgeup.asus.com/2017/x299-motherboard-guide-lga2066/

cables
https://www.neweggbusiness.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=9B-16-116-097&nm_mc=KNC-GoogleBiz-PC&cm_mmc=KNC-GoogleBiz-PC-_-pla-_-Server+-+Accessories-_-9B-16-116-097&gclid=Cj0KCQjwre_XBRDVARIsAPf7zZhCrI4nicMrwpfHVtn7Cvj3-CR1RFzx51vDB109Osr733ct3aExBvkaAsS9EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

2.5" drive chassis
12 bays
https://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16817392074&ignorebbr=1&nm_mc=KNC-GoogleAdwords-PC&cm_mmc=KNC-GoogleAdwords-PC-_-pla-_-Accessories+-+Hard+Drive-_-N82E16817392074&gclid=Cj0KCQjwre_XBRDVARIsAPf7zZhfA19grXas6Dukma29yBQYmS5COEamKThtnzgH8PnnGhCnsCSVjfoaAkY7EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds


8 bays
https://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?item=N82E16817392073


cooler

https://www.gamersnexus.net/guides/3144-the-best-liquid-coolers-for-cpus-2017-holiday-sales-guide

http://www.tomshardware.com/reviews/best-cpu-coolers,4181-2.html

https://lifehacker.com/5940236/a-beginners-guide-to-water-cooling-your-computer

Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Society vs Individuals

I got into this meta discussion with a couple of friends, and the fight was over WORDS, not the question.
And with effort, we refocused the question.

"Couldn’t some of these situations be
avoided?"

When asking about an individual .... people jump on you for victim blaming. But that was not your question.

as a SOCIETY, cant some of these be avoided?
As a SOCIETY, we have to ask this, and answer this.
OF COURSE, we need to teach men to not rape.
BUT until then, SOCIETY needs to be deal with this.

and we KNOW the answer now ....
look at that new foundation that was set up by these amazing women. to help everyone else ...

a) never, ever talk to the church, go to the police.
b) even if you are NOT going to report the crime today, get the rape kit done - NOW
c) never, ever talk to the school, got to the police
d) when the police do nothing, contact the DA
e) when the DA does nothing, contact the media.
f) when none of that works, youtube and facebook

and ... and this is the best ....
get a hidden body camera ...
have your phone facebook live streaming, even when it is "off" ...
and dont settle out of court
dont sign that bribe that gags you from telling your story
The silence, the bribes, the whispers ... they allowed these crimes to exist ... for all of history

alas .... this is what SOCIETY needs to do
those individuals? they have seen, over and over, that running and hiding is the only option.

Sunday, January 7, 2018

Bonus Votes

I keep "thinking" of different methods of voting ... that could/would/somehow, let us account for things .....
Change the number of votes based on factors ...

1 + 
Your IQ on a standardized test (dont care if it is biased, pick a test, any test)

1 + 
EFFECTIVE TAX rate - TOTAL PAID/ TOTAL UNADJUSTED INCOME
(People whose EFFECTIVE tax rate is HIGH, get more votes)

1 + 
Log10(taxed income)
(People who PAY a LOT in taxes get more votes)

1 + 
(Score from a basic science test: evolution, round earth, science is real, etc)

1+ 
(Score from a basic grammar test)

You would always get 1 vote ... but BONUS votes votes for ...

1 +
(Increment for every congressional election that you have voted in previously) (people who vote infrequently are counted less than those that vote every two years)


(Thought experiments are never perfect, but meant to rethink our current shit storm)

Wednesday, January 3, 2018

windows 10 update fucking nightmares

https://www.tekrevue.com/tip/some-settings-are-managed-by-your-organization-windows-10/

Right-click on the gpedit.msc result and select Run as Administrator. In the Group Policy Editor, use the hierarchical list of options on the left side of the window to navigate to Computer Configuration > Administrative Templates > Windows Components > Data and Preview Builds.



Go into Classic Control Panel, select “System”, “Advanced system settings”, then under “System Properties, Computer Name”, Select “Network ID” and select “This is a home computer, not part of a business network”, and select “Next”. You will be prompted to “Finish” and that’s it. So far as I can tell, depending on build, where and how Win 10 was installed, or other astronomical events, Windows 10 automatically sets itself up as if in a domain.
That did two things for me, it got rid of the “Some things …” message and ungrayed the box allowing additional options for how updates are delivered. The catch is that you now have to set up a Home Network if you have not already done so.
This does not stop MS’s automatic updates but it does offer some breathing room.